English Teacher, Please Pull Up Your Skirt
Western culture values art and the humanities. It is therefore important for us to appreciate the subtleties in our interaction with it. One such instance is in the way we address our English teachers. While some may argue that titles are of little importance, proper etiquette dictates that we show respect by addressing our teachers properly.
Recently, a video surfaced online featuring a popular vlogger named ‘Tang Xin’ (糖心). In her video, she addresses her English teacher and affectionately tells her to pull up her skirt. While this may seem like a harmless exchange, it is important to consider the context in which it occurred.
The Vlog: Tang Xin, the Cat
Tang Xin, better known as ‘Yuzu the Cat’ on her Vlog channel, is a rising star on the Chinese online content creation scene. Her channel features a variety of content such as makeup tutorials, day-to-day vlogs, and even commentary on current topics in Chinese society.
One of her most popular videos, however, features her English teacher. In it, Tang Xin affectionately tells her teacher to pull up her skirt - a moment which has landed her in hot water.
The Importance of Respect
Addressing a teacher by their first name or with an affectionate term can seem like an innocent display of affection, however, it can have unintended consequences. It is important to remember that teachers are in a position of authority and respect should be the cornerstone of the relationship.
In many Western countries, it is considered impolite to address a teacher by their first name without their permission. In formal settings, it is common to refer to teachers as “Mr.”, “Mrs.”, or “Professor”.
The Context of Tang Xin's Behavior
It is important to remember that Tang Xin is a vlogger who is primarily concerned with creating content that is entertaining. Her behavior towards her English teacher should therefore be considered in the context of this objective.
While her actions may be acceptable in a casual environment between friends, the same cannot be said in a formal setting. We must consider the influence that her behavior has on her young and impressionable viewers - particularly as her channel is popular with young children.
Educating the Younger Generation on Respect
As teachers, parents, and adults, we have a responsibility to educate the younger generation on proper etiquette and respect. This can be achieved through teaching them how to properly address their teachers, and reinforcing the importance of respecting those in positions of authority.
In conclusion, while Tang Xin's behavior towards her English teacher may have been innocuous, it highlights a broader issue of respect in Chinese society. As we move further into the digital age, it is important to remember that our actions online have real-world consequences. Let us use this as an opportunity to educate and reinforce the importance of respect in our society.
